Tantra Yoni Massage

Have you ever thought about giving or receiving a Yoni Massage?

Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina and the Yoni massage can help to make sex a stunning spiritual experience by both the giver and the receiver entering into a state of relaxation and not necessarily thinking about achieving orgasm, although this may occur anyway.

The Tantra Yoni massage starts with the receiver on her back with pillows under her head and one under her hips, legs spread apart. Both partners start with deep relaxing breathing before the giver starts to gently massage the receiver from the breasts and abdomen down including the legs before starting the main Yoni massage.

To massage the Yoni you will need some oil or lubricant, such as our White Gypsy Massage Oil  which is completely organic made from Macadamia Intergrifolia seed oil. Taking your time use a small amount of oil and begin to massage the Yoni round the outer lips and the mound before starting on the inner lips. This massage is about taking your time to enjoy and relax during the session not to rush or be distracted. Both partners should feel a sense of pleasure and relaxation. Slowly you can insert a finger into the Yoni and maybe even a finger into the anus.

For a more detailed Yoni massage explanation including the finger movements plus much more information on Tantric massages follow this link.

Lingam Massage

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ in Tantra. As with the Yoni massage the aim is deep relaxation and more intense pleasure rather than solely achieving orgasm. The man lies on his back with pillows under his head and hips with legs spread apart and knees slightly bent to fully expose his genitals. Start by massaging the whole body before and using deep relaxed breathing before starting to touch the Lingam and testicles. Using a small quantity of oil (try our White Gypsy Organic Massage Oil, made from Macadamia Intergrifolia seed oil) begin to very gently massage the Lingam and testicles. Take your time and vary the speed and pressure, alternating hands and direction you stroke the shaft. Then pay more attention to the head of the Lingam, the Lingam may go soft and not get hard again or it may keep getting hard then soft etc. As the aim is not orgasm if the receiver is about going to ejaculate back off and allow the Lingam to go soft slightly before carrying on. Massaging the small indentation midway between the testicles and anus gently will encourage expanded orgasms and control of ejaculating.

Erotic massages such as the Lingam massage are also a very good opportunity to become familiar with the feel, size and look of the penis, testicles and scrotum and to check for any lumps or changes in the testicles that may indicate a problem. It is important to check this area regularly so any changes can be picked up straight away and be checked out by your Doctor in case of Testicular Cancer.

For a full explanation on the Lingam massage and many more massage techniques follow this link.

Sensual Breast Massage

Breast massage has many benefits, not only to provide pleasure to the person receiving the massage but also for the giver. Sensual breast massage improves the circulation to the breasts and therefore the sensations produced can be quite erotic and turn the receiver on. Breasts are made up of fibrous tissue and a layer of fat and have a rich blood supply. Regular massaging will help to keep your breasts healthy as well as giving you an opportunity to check for any abnormalities or changes in the breast, nipples, armpit and arms that may be an early indication of breast cancer (for more information please follow the link).

To give a sensual breast massage pour a little oil into your hands and place on each breast and with one hand circling clockwise and the other counter clockwise gently massage for about 10 minutes. Then focus on the nipples one breast at a time for 5-10 minutes before repeating the first step but changing the direction each hand moves in. To finish place both hands between the breasts just above the heart and close your eyes and imagine love and energy flowing between you and your partner. For a more in depth description on how to perform the sensual breast massage please follow this link.

There are many more forms of erotic massage and Tantric massages that can help to enhance your sexual experiences, why not check them out by following this link.

Spice Up Your Life – How About Going To A Fetish Club?

Do you feel your love life has gone a little stale?

Maybe you have run out of exciting new ideas, well why not look into alternative life styles and clubs?

Alternative adult clubs are a great way to meet new and interesting people. You can go, be yourself and have a look round to take in everything that is going on. You do not have to join in if you don’t want to but who knows you may find something that turns you on and would like to try with your partner. There is often some sort of dress code to follow when you go but it doesn’t need to be outrageous unless you want it to be!

A lot of fetish clubs have websites for you to check everything out beforehand with galleries, rules, prices and events they have going on. Some you have to become a member before arriving so check if you have to join for a set number of days before going, if this is the case you should be able to join online which will make it quick and easy. There are many different types of fetish clubs, some may specialise in a certain type of lifestyle i.e. swinging and others may have different things going on each night. If you are not sure what to expect from a club then if they have a forum take a look to see what previous visitors have to say about the club and they may also provide the answer to any questions you have.

Fetish clubs can include nights for Transvestites, Swingers, BDSM, Gay and Lesbian and Singles dating. Take your time to look into the various types of club and if you are not sure choose one that seems friendly and go on a night where things will be light hearted rather than going straight into a club where everyone is seriously into sub/dom bondage!

Review: (Anonymous) My first time out with my partner we went to a great club on T-Girl night which we found had a very relaxing atmosphere and everyone was very friendly. The host was fun and made sure you were having a good time. We are looking forward to going again on some of the other nights now we know what to expect.

Follow this link for a directory of links to Fetish clubs in the UK and round the world!

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